成人的谎言

rabage

小孩说谎都要被大人训斥，而大人说谎却成了不得已的行为，你有过说谎吗？谁敢说没有


去年有两件事让我一直记忆犹新，一次去打羽毛球遇到一大哥，就住在羽毛球场附近，但碍于没有同伴一直来得少，就对我说以后来打球就叫他，正好下周我们又组织在哪个地方打球，我就告诉他，他不但没来连个回信都没有，让我很纳闷。


又一次去买照相机，又遇到一大哥，两人满城跑，最后一起买了同样的相机，还联合起来和老板还价，后来也说以后多来往，可我给他打电话时他显得很冷淡，而且以后也没主动给我打过电话，也就这样没了联系。


其实这是很普通的两件事，有人会说，说说而已，你又何必当真。而我觉得，如果我是一某重要人物，他们肯定会联系我，但我不是，相反他们倒担心我有事会求于他。人为什么就这么势利了。


工作以后，就难交道实心实意的朋友了，想想还是同学好。

frankdong

想开点吧， 一个是在校园里，一个是在社会上。社会上彼此信任的程度较低，更多的时候交往仅是一种需要而已。

rabage

呵呵，多谢指点，我这个人最想得开了


不过我还是想呼吁一下，大家要遵守自己的陈诺

hierarch

"keep your promise" is also my criterion        of choosing an indeed        friend        


rebage, i think nearly everybody has met the same situation you ecountered, including the two guys you mentioned.


so, what we can do is just to keep our promise no matter what happens!

rabage

In fact,everybody can keep his promise.But most persons don't attention this.


Hierarch,I hope all my friends keep promise although it's impossible.


I can only control my behavior and hope to affect other people.

kean_sb

I think what we should emphasize is do the things we promised, and take easy of what others do as return to us. As the lyrics of        an old song says "let it be". We'v already depressed so much with the life, should we do more hurt by ourselves?Do what we want, pray for little of what others do.

dzzwill

人性罢了

robert

其实只是一种客套罢了，而且人不必要有那么多朋友。